Friday 18 January 2013

Oh My God!!!

I have been thinking about the God and related stuff for quite sometime now. With a husband who claims to be an atheist, I have had no choice but to defend the existence of the God every time we had an argument relating to the rituals and related sentiments associated cropped up. One day a friend suggested that we watch this Hindi movie called "Oh My God". The concept of God and theism and related issues were portrayed very neatly.  
 
The God! - You exist according to me.  But where, how, in what form, I have no idea.  I was told that you are a super power and lived elsewhere called Heaven. I have also been  told that you are the creator and the destroyer. A sense of fear has always prevailed around your existence,Dear Lord!  And people have learnt to exploit it.
 
As I grew up, however, I learnt a few things which I want to share with you God. 
 
When you created this world, according to the mythologies (not considering Darwin's theory of Evolution), you also created some creatures with different levels of sensory. You created this creature called "HUMANS", who without any doubt, have been considered superior(of course according to them) . We creatures have since then been trying to over power every being in this world including the humans ourselves.
 
One such tactics, My God, is using you as a tool and discriminating thy fellows. Some ancestors of ours, had created religions and each religion has had a set of rules to follow. They have also created a lot of sub sects to discriminate fellow human beings in the name of caste, colour and creed and what not. They did not forget to create a fear amongst others stating that if the rules were not followed properly to satisfy you, My God, then they would have to face your wrath. How crooked isn't it??
 
 People have grown to be God Fearing rather than God Loving.We are having people in the name of Gurus to exploit our ignorance about you, God.  We have learnt to discriminate fellow humans in the name of caste, calling them untouchables, etc. failing to remember the fact that all of us are equal in your eyes. You dint teach us to waste food items rather taught us to share even the little that we had with everyone. But, We have created our own rules and have been preaching to ardently bargain things in the form of offerings like milk, curd and other edible items, with you. We have started to do business with you. You have also been offered a part of a share in many of our businesses. You taught us to live in harmony with nature, but all we are doing is in the name of protecting you, is to kill ourselves and steal other creatures' offerings and waste them. We humans have even gone to the extent of killing each other in the name of protecting the so called castes and associated rituals which are purely man-made. We have forgotten all your preaching in the Gita, the Bible and the Quran.
 
God is one for everyone. I see you as Ganesha, someone else sees you as Allah and someone else as Jesus and much more.  The concept of "Thattvamasi"  which says that   the God is in you and everywhere  has been forgotten. God, you are in me, in him, in them and everywhere. God, when I was a child, I went to bal-vikas where I was taught that a man attains godly nature when he has renounced the worldly pleasures. They are Kama,Krodha,Lobha,Moha,Madha,Maascharyam!  But I don't see anyone knowing  or wanting to understand it. Rather, to follow blind folded in the name of fear.  All I see is people wanting to protect you in the name of protecting religions and associated activities. We have forgotten that you are responsible for everything!  Good Lord
 
If only people understood these, this world would have been a better place to live. Is that why, you chose not appear before us nor interfere in these nor bother to justify your existence and chose to happily enjoy in then Heaven??? I see. I get your point! :)

Saturday 5 January 2013

Puberty - A natural phenomenon..

A few days ago, I heard about a news that some distant relative of mine hosting a party. I dont know this person. So I was intrigued as to why I was told about this person. Let me put down what news I was told right to set the context here. That person's daughter has attained her puberty and he was hosting a grand party for that. I was told that the parents had bought jewellery worth more than 45 lakhs and much more. I was stunned and angry at the same time.My concern is not about what they buy for their daughter.
 
Here is my take on this subject. A girl attaining her puberty is a natural phenomenon and I dont think it has to be celebrated in a grand manner. From what I understand, it was a tradition followed in the olden days to tell the world that the daughter was ready for the next level in her life, i.e. , she being ready for marriage and having kids no matter how young she was. As derogatory as it sounds, that was the reason behind the celebration. It was not the case for the boys. The worst part is that, in the name of tradition it is still being followed. Did people ever think how emotionally traumatic it can be for the girls to sit in front of everyone and get celebrated for attaining her puberty?
 
 It is that time of a girl's age where she matures both physically and mentally. It ain't an achievement nor something that has to be shouted out in public. In today's world, a girl child attains puberty from an age of 10 and some are even lucky when that they even cross the age of 16. But is it something that has to be out in open? For instance, a girl who goes to school faces a lot of humiliation due to this so called celebration.The inherent nature of our society is to treat men and women differently. The school kids are not spared either. There is a gender bias everywhere and a difference is created amongst them at this tender age itself. So, boys and girls form their own gangs. They pass derogatory comments at such girls. I have faced it during my school days. So do many girls at that age.
 
I feel such acts are unnecessary and leads to a lot of stress in the minds of the kids. Will the parents ever listen or think before they do such things? Or is it even discussed/debated to not to hold such celebration? I have no idea. Only time can answer these questions. As for me, I will not indulge in such acts..

Thursday 3 January 2013

New year.. New Resolutions..

It is a new year and a new start. But what about resolutions? Is it a must? Many of my friends posted so many of their resolutions as their statuses and I was wondering whether I ever had one at all this year. In my opinion, resolutions are there to be broken and I don't know how many really follow those.

I have always wanted to learn and do a few things. So, I decided to pen down and see how many I could actually finish doing few years down the line. Here goes the list (though not in that order)...
 
  • Study Interior designing and becoming an Interior design
  • Build a dream home
  • Grow and maintain a garden 
  • Learn children psychology
  • Learn to do painting - various styles, say glass, acrylic,Tanjore, etc
  • Learn Photography
  • Learn Mehendi Art
  • Start blogging in a full fledged manner. (I have piled up quite a lot of pics for posting on my food blog)
  • Shape up my boutique business by learning about the fabrics and more
And the list is endless.. As I see it coming I'll be a Jack of All trades and a Master of none. But, I don't care. All I care about is to learn and learn rather than feeling about not making hay while the Sun was shining. But before I die, I just hope to do most of them.